Hello CraftyRaven69.
I ran across this bedspread that looks a little like the pattern you are trying to find for your friend. This picture is a bedspread I found it on Pinterest. The squares are not the spider stitch in your photo but from what I can see of your picture it looks similar. You may have already found the pattern if not you can look at this for her.

Spoula



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