Just wanted to let you all know that my husband has had his 2nd kidney surgery and it did not go as well as planned. He will need another surgery in a few months. He does not seem to snap back as well this time. Surgery took a lot longer and so is the recovery time. Lots more pain, bleeding, and spasms. Now I got word that my mother was admitted to a different hospital with a perforation in her stomach. So I am awaiting news if she needs surgery. I feel I should be with my mother, but my husband needs me to be with him also. Feeling torn and sad that I can not be in two places at the same time. Praying to God that he wraps them in his arms and keeps them safe.